Peugeot CDM 25: She was just Nervous as Hell

Post by Harian Metro * myMetro.

Well501x.. tak silap aku semalam kot, aku tengok video a Malay Muslim girl mengamuk sebab kereta apek terlanggar her bumper.. Masa aku tengok video tu, tak jadi viral lagi macam sekarang.. haha.. masa tu, ada berapa kerat je yang kisah pasal tu.. but now, it's going viral.. and everyone insulting that girl saying this and that.. gaya diorang tu baik sangat je masa drive tak pernah maki hamun orang lain..

manusia, kalau jadi dekat orang lain, memang suka sangat nak mengata kan? tak sedar entah2 dia dulu masa baru dapat kereta, baru dapat P, perangai sama je macam that girl.. I'm writing this based on my own experience.. it's a typical thing sebenarnya dekat Malaysia.. kalau orang baru dapat kereta, above all, baru dapat lesen P.. standardlah mengamuk macam tu sebenarnya.. berapa ramai dah aku tengok perangai sama je macam that girl.. 

but, why that girl je yang satu Malaysia nak maki hamun, sampai polis siap nak ambil tindakan bagai? it's not fair for that girl sebenarnya kalau polis nak ambil tindakan pada dia saja sedangkan berlambak lagi manusia dekat Malaysia tu, yang sama je perangai macam dia.. bahkan, lagi teruk lagi.. kenapa baru sekarang isu ni nak diperbesar-besarkan? 

One thing for sure, I know that girl is just nervous as hell.. I've been through that thing as well.. masa drive at Jalan Kuching, tengah jammed kot time tu, ada kereta suddenly tertekan minyak kot laju kemain langgar dari belakang.. and yes, I was nervous.. and, the driver was also nervous.. siapa tak cuak berlanggar kot~~ kereta orang tu dahlah ford.. aku, bawa waja je.. ketar2 kot aku time tu.. and this girl, she's driving Peugeot for damn sake!!! orang yang kata, ala takat Peugeot nak kecoh, korang apa tau? takat bawa MyVi yang bulan2 bayar RM700 tu, faham ke orang yang drive kereta kena bayar ribu bulan2.. dahlah kereta baru tu!!!

I'm not backing that girl.. she's wrong.. she's rude.. she's racist.. yes.. but, all Malaysian are racist.. admit it.. nak2, kita Melayu ni.. we're damn racist sebenarnya.. we feel insecure in our own mother land.. nak2 kalau opponent kita tu chinese.. they're more intelligent than us.. they score higher marks than us, Malay in school.. they're richer than us.. and so on.. tu yang Malay rasa insecure sangat dengan Chinese tu.. 

but, we're all wrong.. we Malay have a wrong perspective of the Chinese.. we got much more than them actually.. kenapa mereka struggle to get high marks in school? sebab mereka nak dapatkan biasiswa from our government.. we Malay, we are lucky sebab kita ada banyak je pilihan lain kalau tak dapat JPA.. we've MARA to sponsor us..but, Chinese? they only have JPA.. I've a Chinese friend who is gambling to come to UK for her master without even securing financial support.. she applied for the JPA scholar, but the result aren't announced until the winter time.. she needs to work to support her life here.. anak Melayu? first month datang UK, dah merata berjalan sana-sini.. they are struggling cause they know they didn't have the Akta 153 that will back them up.. 

most Malaysian are rude.. rude to the elder.. takde dah manners dalam diri kita masing2.. susah sangat kita nak hormat orang yang lagi tua dari kita bila apa yang kita fikir adalah, "aku hebat dari orang lain!".. ego, bongkak, dalam diri ada pride sebab mentang2 graduate.. orang tua tu, banyak sekolah pun tak habis.. sebab tu makin tak reti nak hormat orang lain bila pandang rendah dekat orang.. 

kenapa kita perlu tunduk pada pride diri sendiri? kenapa susah sangat nak turunkan ego masing2? kenapa kita perlu rasa diri kita hebat dari orang lain? adakah degree itu adalah kayu pengukur status masing2? adakah harta benda itu yang jadi penanda aras tinggi rendah kita semua? I just couldn't understand the way people think nowadays.. kenapa, kenapa, dan kenapa kita perlu nak bangga semata-mata kita ada degree? kenapa tak boleh nak keep humble as we did masa kita baru je masuk darjah satu? 

And, all Malaysian, not only that girl, need to learn the crisis management.. haha.. ayat tak boleh bla.. maknanya, kena tau macam mana nak deal dengan situasi ni.. tak perlu kot sampai nak mengamuk tak tentu arah.. sampai orang lain sama terlibat.. daripada dua kereta je yang berlanggar, tak pasal2 dua puluh kereta sama2 stuck tak boleh gerak.. who knows, among the twenty, ada yang kena rushing emergency bagai.. 

masa aku berlanggar dulu, I'm lucky I've my mother sebelah yang tolong consult with that person.. dia pun, ada mak dia kat sebelah.. ahaks.. bawa kereta ketepi, keluar kereta, salam, tengok apa yang kena, exchange phone number, settle.. lepas repair, mms resit repair, bayar.. it's as simple as that.. takde gaduh2 bagai.. that girl pun, aku tengok, ada je mak dia. but, why did her mom duduk terpaku macam tu? act like a mum, will you? when I watched that, I thought she's a passerby until that girl said " Mak, call abah." then baru aku tau mak cik jubah hitam tu, her mother rupanya.. tak malu ke mak cik tu ada anak macam tu.. and, tak malu ke girl tu buat macam tu depan orang ramai, bersaksikan your own mother yang beranakkan kau? 

this incident is like a waking up call for me and all of us.. for me, ia sekadar ingatan dan pesanan buat diriku yang sering terlupa dan tunduk pada pride sendiri.. I need to be more thoughtful after this.. I need to remember that heartless person is cool in drama, but in reality, it's cold..