" Dan janganlah kamu berjalan di muka bumi ini dengan sombong, kerana sesungguhnya kamu sekali-kali tidak dapat menembusi bumi dan sekali-kali kamu tidak akan sampai setinggi gunung (17: 37)"
Pride. Everyone sure do have it deep inside us. Cuma kita pandai nak control ourselves je ke tak. Some people, value their pride, sangat-sangat! Sampai dah boleh jadi hidung tinggi langit dah! Wonder why these people exist. Why did they care sangat-sangat dengan their very own self sampai orang lain punya pemikiran pun mereka nak control supaya sama macam apa yang mereka fikir?
To me, we can't control what people nak fikir. Lantaklah. Every person on Earth, Allah bagi akal, ada hak untuk tentukan apa yang diri masing-masing nak fikir. We ain't robot yang certain people boleh control. Nak-nak, our own thinking.
This is why, we should value others. Learn to respect, and do respect others. Ini bukan zaman yang tua dihormati yang muda disayangi? Yes, indeed. But people, we do need to respect others so that others will respect you. Hablumminallah wa hablumminannas. Right? Simple rule, yet too hard to be followed.
Setengah dari kita, solat jaga, cantik. Puasa sunat, rajin yang amat! Hubungan dengan Allah, tip top. Tapi, kita selalu lupa bab hablumminannas tu. Hubungan dengan manusia lain. Bila kita value our pride sangat-sangat, tu yang jadi tak reti nak value others tu. We keep seeing others at wrong when all they did is only not thinking the same as you are. Sick people, sick..
It never wrong to rendahkan ego to. Accept others. Dan telan apa yang orang kata. Hadam baik-baik. After all, it's never wrong to listen to what others got to say, kan? We'll learned a lot more, instead. Takdelah dalam kepala kita penuh dengan kita punya thoughts je, believe me. Cuma, apa orang kata tu, accept it as it is. Don't bother if it's collide with your own thinking. After all, people think differently.
Kalau ya nak oppose juga, do it right, dengan saluran yang betul, cara yang betul. Jangan straight away je bom tak tentu pasal. Others do have their own pride juga. Try to be in their shoes. Respect. That's the rule. Then, your hablumminannas will be preserved well.
Apa aku membebel dalam post kali ni, ni? haha. Takde apa. I just feel like, terpukul once I came across the ayat in Suratul Isra' yesterday. And, I told myself, what have you been doing all these years? Cukupkah kau merendahkan diri kau dihadapan Allah? Pernahkah sekali pun, sekelumit pun, terbit rasa bangga dalam diri kau? Dan pernahkah kau memandang enteng pada orang lain? I did told myself all that.
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